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Tuesday
4
July
Gathering with the family
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Tuesday, July 4, 2023
Humphreys Funeral Home
20 Marks Street
St. Stephen , New Brunswick, Canada
(506) 466-3110
Wednesday
5
July
Celebration of Life
2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Wednesday, July 5, 2023
Humphreys Funeral Home
20 Marks Street
St. Stephen , New Brunswick, Canada
(506) 466-3110
Reception
Immediately following the service in the funeral home reception centre
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Eleanor Perry Morissette posted a condolence
Saturday, December 9, 2023
On behalf of my parents Claire (Boone) and Graham Perry and myself (Eleanor Perry) and my husband (Ray Morissette) I wish to express my sincerest condolences to the whole Sode family. Toby helped us out often when we visited our house in Brockway, next door to him and Lois. My parents were also their neighbours for a number of years. I remember seeing him at horse pulls in St Stephen, which was always a great treat.
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Janice Allen-Scott posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 5, 2023
To Lois and David,
I am so sorry to read of Toby's passing. Back some years ago we had a lot of good laughs at horse shows and pulls. He never called me Janice it was always Jannie. I should add in case you forget who I am, I'm Clifford Allen's granddaughter and was always at shows helping. It's been years since I've seen you both as well as Toby. He was a great guy and someone I will never forget.
Sincerely,
Janice Allen
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Tammy Purdy posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 5, 2023
Lois and family I am soooo sorry to hear Toby passed away. One story I have to share. Toby always came over to me and chatted when he was at the superstore when I worked there or anywhere he saw me in town. Toby was a sweetheart. He loved to joke. He was sitting on the bench they had by the cashiers lanes one day and pointed to this shiny circle on the floor it looked like a twoonie. He was asking everyone if they could pick it up for him. lol He got quite a few of us with that. We would bend down to pick up the coin for him and he would laugh so hard his eyes shining lol. He said he wasn't the one who put the sticker on the floor . lol Good times. Toby will be dearly missed.
Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.
Tammy Purdy
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Kylie Cumberland posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 4, 2023
Sorry for your loss Toby was a great man and he will missed by so many and sending love and hugs to the whole family at this difficult time
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Richard & Marie Caswell posted a condolence
Monday, July 3, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby's passing. Thinking of you, Lois and family, at this sad and difficult time and keeping you in our prayers.
God Bless,
Dick & Marie Caswell
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Lynn and Linda Cleghorn posted a condolence
Monday, July 3, 2023
So sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and peace at this time of sorrow. Sending hugs to all .
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Saturday, July 1, 2023
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Melanie Cameron posted a condolence
Friday, June 30, 2023
Thinking of you Mrs. Sode and your familly. Sorry to hear this. Hugs
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Dale and Carol Ann Caldwell posted a condolence
Thursday, June 29, 2023
Thinking of Jeff , Monica and all the family at this very sad time. I too remember trips to Old Home Week in Woodstock to watch the teamsters and their horses compete. Toby was a fixture at the event and always did well. He was a man of character and will certainly be missed. R.I.P.
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Betty and Armin Langley posted a condolence
Thursday, June 29, 2023
So sorry for your loss , we had a lot of great chats with Toby while shopping. Our prayers are with you all at this time
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Raymond Leavitt posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 28, 2023
We new toby very well her could tell joke and he was jolly man he love his horses I remember him at horse pulls I was young my dad and mom us to go everywhere watch the horse pulls we are very sorry to here about toby pass RIPToby God with you all every step away
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MARIE M MEISTER posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
So sorry for your loss. I was not very old when I would go with my Dad driving taxi, but I remember going to the little store to take Mamie Demone home. We had the telephone office at our house so Mom hired Toby's sister, Gladys to help her. Toby & my brother Vernon were the same age and good friends. I remember Toby being so jolly & kind. RIP Toby.
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Heather Walton posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
So sorry for your loss. Our mom Hazel and Garnet Sloan thought alot of Toby and his wife. Ronnie and Heather Walton and siblings
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Helen and Ken Torrance posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
Sorry for the loss of your loved one. Thinking of you at this time.
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Lori Johnson posted a condolence
Monday, June 26, 2023
Please accept my sincere condolence in the loss of Toby. He was a great man, with a hearty laugh and great stories.
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Sabrina Hamilton posted a condolence
Sunday, June 25, 2023
So sorry for the loss. Toby will be missed. I'll be praying for the family. Stay strong!
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Sharon and Rick McGlinchey posted a condolence
Saturday, June 24, 2023
So sorry to hear about Toby. Thinking about the Sode family with our deepest condolences.
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Rob and June Kennedy posted a condolence
Saturday, June 24, 2023
David, Sharon and family,
So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all at this very difficult time. Take care,
Rob and June Kennedy and Family
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Peter, Heather, Jamie & Rachel Hogge posted a condolence
Saturday, June 24, 2023
We are very sorry for your loss, thinking of you all during this difficult time.
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Linda Crawford posted a condolence
Saturday, June 24, 2023
Lois we send you and family our condolences..
Linda Crawford & Steve McIntee
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Gary Naugler posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Toby's passing. I was just a young boy when Toby worked for my Uncle Fred and I remember a very kind and gentle man (just like his dad , Mr Side Sode) but he always took time to joke with us kids and make us laugh. My thoughts are with the whole family at this very difficult time
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Nicole Gardner posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Toby's passing, he was a great man....he was great company when I worked at the store and I remember the time I had to work on my Birthday, He brought in a birthday cake which I shared with him and the Sunday lunch crew (sad to think they are all gone now) He had a big heart and will be missed by many <3 Hugs to the family <3
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Ted and Jo-Anne Moody posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
David and Jeff,
We were so sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences to you and the rest of the family.
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Eleanor Perry Morissette posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
We send our heartfelt sympathies to Lois and the whole family. Toby always was a great help when we visited Brockway to look after our house at that time. We have good memories of him and Lois as our neighbours when we were there.
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Gisele Scott posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Wayne and Ruth Brown posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
So sad to hear of Tobys passing. What a wonderful man and so many memories of the fun times at exhibitions. To all of your family Lois we are thinking of you.
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Dave and Mary Driscoll posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2023
Sorry to hear about your loss, we are thinking about you during this time and your thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Donnie Hiland posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
Lois: Sending my deepest sympathy to you, on Toby's passing. You certainly went 'above and beyond' in caring for him, during his period of failing health. Thinking of you, Mike, Elaine, Leisha, Jeff, and David, and all their families, at this difficult time. Take good care, everyone...
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June Pelkey posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
Lois and family, sorry to hear of Toby's passing. Hoping your memories help you all through this sad time.
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John Connick posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
Sorry to hear My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time god bless
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Wilbert and Lisa Glynn posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry for your loss. Toby meant a lot to my father, James Little, who spoke of him often and always enjoyed visiting. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Wayne Vail posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby's passing! Praying for strength for you and your family during this very difficult time.
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Wayne and Ruth Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sad to hear of Tobys passing. He will surely be missed. So many memories of being with him at exhibitions. Too numerous to list. Thinking of you Lois Elaine Jeff and David and all your family. We are thinking of you
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Bill and Barbara (Langley) Vye posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
Mike, Lynn and family:
Our condolences on Toby's passing.
Bill & Barbara (Langley) Vye
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Doug and Tracy Raymond posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
To the Sode family our thoughts are with you all.
Doug and Tracy Raymond
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pamela eldridge posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
I was sorry to learn of Toby's passing....I so hope it was peaceful and serene...I met Toby thru my father (James Little) and was happy dad had met someone like him and his wife. Your family is truly a beautiful family and I am sure Toby and you are both so proud!
He was a good man and a good friend to all who know him! May he rest in peace! Hugs!!
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Donnie & Debbie MacDougall posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
Sorry to hear of Toby’s passing.
We have a lot of fond memories of Toby , many long talks at the store in Lawrence Station when it was running. We miss both him an the store. If we were out for a walk he often puller over for a chat.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
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betty hunter posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby's passing he was a wonderful man and we enjoyed his always chatting with us !our condolences to the family Toby+Betty Hunter
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Ruth and Ellison Veinotte posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby’s passing , he was always such a nice man and friendly. Whenever we would see him at an exhibition, he wouldn’t always remember our names but he knew where we fit with our New Ross families and he would want to catch up and find out about all his New across friends . The conversation could last a long time.
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Bill & Joyce Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby"s passing. He was always such a friendly man and we have had some great conversations over the years. He will be missed. Our condolences to the family.
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Tiffany Doucet posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2023
So sorry to hear about Toby’s passing. Enjoyed our chats when he used to come in and visit when I was working at the store in the station. My condolences to everyone.
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Anne M Parent uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, June 22, 2023
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Hi Aunt Lois. I am so sorry for your loss. Uncle Toby was a favorite and will be missed greatly. I liked his humor and he was all about family. He took good care of anyone that came to the house to visit. Toby loved his horses and love to do the horse pulls. It was his life's passion and he was so blessed to be able to do what he liked best. He was a godly man too and I loved him for that. He will be missed greatly.
Best Regards
Anne M Parent
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Cindy McMahon posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby's passing. Always enjoyed hearing his stories when he came in to see Dr.Janmohamed. My condolence to all the family.
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Brenda Pugh posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
To Autins family sincere condolences from Allan and Brenda (Calhoun) Pugh.
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Elaine Marshall posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So sorry to hear of Toby’s passing. I remember my Dad Milford Marshall and Toby had a great time in competition pulling horses around the Maritimes USA Always friendly to our family Sorry to all the family
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Debbie Yerxa posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Condolences to Lois and the family. I am Hugh Morehouse's daughter and Toby and Dad were great friends!
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Jennifer Smet posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So very sad to hear of Toby's passing. He truely was a pleasure to know and chat with. He always had a joke or a story to share and he loved to laugh..his laughter was the best. Sending condolences to his family.
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Sally posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Our condolences to the family. Toby was a great man, who always had a smile and a few minutes to share with you. I knew Toby for his love of horses and visits into Cook’s Grocery, he would often have a few verses of a song he would sing as he was exiting. Will certainly miss him.!
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Maureen posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jason and Maureen Hooper
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Rita Taylor posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Rita Taylor
My deepest sympathies Lois to you and all the family. My late husband John Taylor (who passed Oct 2021) met Toby a few years ago sitting on the seat in the Superstore. They had long conversations on farming, horses, and people they both knew, putting the world to right. Toby knew everybody! God bless him, may he rest in peace. We will miss him
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Kate Burkholder, Harry Roy and Harriette Anderson posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So very sorry to you the family of Toby Sode I will miss our talks at local stops; Superstore, Jean Coutu others. We've known Toby all our lives, and things won't be the same in Brockway! Be at peace Toby.
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Jimmy , Faith and family posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
We are So Sorry to hear of the passing of uncle Tobey,we lived in Nova Scotia Uncle Tobey in New Brunswick so we didn't get to see him often but we were always sure to see him during the week of the Big X in Bridgewater at the horse pull where
he was almost always front stage at the horse pull where he won lots of pulling awards always entering a good team and gained recognition for his winning pulls and record pulls and he love to pull and loved his Horses,May God Bless him and RIP uncle Tobey{ Austin}.
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Tom&Theresa Cloney posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
When Tom and I had our little store in Lawrence Station, Toby was a daily visitor.He always had a smile and many good chats.He will be dearly missed by all who knew him .So sorry for your loss .
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Hal and Ruth McMullin posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Our deepest condolences Lois and family on the loss of Toby. We always enjoyed chatting with Toby. He always had lots of stories to tell. Praying for peace in the days ahead as you recall the great memories made and shared with so many.
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Lorraine Rafuse posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Sending my deepest sympathy to Lois and family.So sorry to read of Toby death,he was such a great man.I loved it when ,he gave that hardy laugh.He worked driving my father’s truck in New Ross. Many years ago.I am Hilda Walker sister. Thinking of you all.Lorraine Rafuse New Ross N.S.
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Marleen Thibodeau posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Our sincerest sympathies Lois and all the family. We have great memories of Toby.
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Sonia & Alan Booth posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
We are so sorry to hear of Toby's passing. Our condolences to Lois and family.
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Roselle Gowan posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Nice picture of a very nice man who I had the privilege of spend some time with at the DECH. We talked about the ole days when he worked in the woods with dad and sheldon, stories you don’t hear everyday, dad told me stories before he pasted which I will always treasure but I so enjoyed hearing them from Toby. We talked about his beautiful bride and how much he loved you Lois, proud of all your kids:grandkids and great grandkids. You have been in our thoughts through these last months and will keep you there Mark, Roselle and Family ❤️
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Lynn and Linda Cleghorn posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
So very sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort at this time of great sorrow.
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Patricia Craig posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Condolences to David and family. Mark Craig
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Tim & Rosina LeBlanc posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
We are so sorry to hear of Toby's passing . He was such a great friend that will surely be missed. Our sympathy , love and prayers Lois to you & your family at this sad time .
Tim & Rosina LeBlanc
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Dorothy Sweet posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Vance & I are sending our deepest condolences to you all. Cherish your memories.
Vance & Dot Sweet
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Noella & Eugene Black posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Condolences to you Lois & your family. Miss talking to Toby at the Superstore. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Wednesday, June 21, 2023
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